What is Irony and Why Do People Confuse It With Coincidences?

The Literature teacher whose classes I took once said that people did not know what irony really was. He taught a class on how Alanis Morissette sang a song called Ironic and yet she did not talk about one truly ironic thing in the song. “It’s like 10,000 spoons when all you need is a knife,” is something she sang. That, my friends, is a coincidence and not ironic in a literal sense. Irony is much different than coincidences, I’ll have you believe.

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What is irony? First of all there are two types of irony. The first is called dramatic and the second situational. This is something you learn about in literature class. Irony is a great technique to enrich your writing.

Dramatic irony is one literary technique. This is when the readers, and possibly some characters, know something that one or more of the other characters do not know. Take, for example, an antagonist setting up a trap for the protagonist. The protagonist may not know that this is a trap; thus, an example of dramatic irony. This is a great device to use for writers.

Situational irony is different. It occurs when there is a gap between expectation and reality. I had to brush up on these, or learn it for the first time. I can’t remember. At any rate, it is a literary device used to surprise and shock readers, as well as revealing important aspects of the story’s theme.

There you have it; what irony is as opposed to what it commonly known as irony. Coincidences are great, but they are not interchangeable terms with irony. There is dramatic and situational version of the literary device. Whatever device you choose, you will be enriching your writing by utilizing great literary techniques. Give irony a shot, true irony, next time you write something.

Books by Mahmoud Suleiman Abdi Dualeh – Book Promotions

Stoneronarollercoaster just promoted my books! I’m thrilled and so happy to be supported.

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Please welcome another relatively new fellow blogger, Mahmoud Dualeh, he blogs at https://dualehwriters.home.blog/

He has written interesting posts about writing and writers, that are totally worth checking.

So, this guy has 4 book. Yes, 4!!

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Go have a look guys!

Have a great day.

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Guys , if you have published a book and you want me to promote it please feel free to drop a little intro and link to your book in the comments below. i would love to share about your book. It’s just a little gesture to appreciate the community that got me where i could never imagine.

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Writing Tips from Best-selling Authors

Masterclass is an online set of classes offered to aspiring writers and authors. In these classes, leading figures in different fields teach their students the tricks of their chosen trade. People like Helen Mirren, Margaret Atwood and Gordon Ramsey teach people acting, writing and cooking respectively. I’ll be focusing on lessons from worldly writers and authors that have sold a lot of books. From learning from best-selling authors, your writing should greatly improve.

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First of all, we can learn from authors’ experiences. J.K. Rowling wrote a masterpiece in Harry Potter and the Philosopher’s/Sorcerer’s Stone. The book, one of the best-selling of all time with over 100 million copies sold, did not initially fare that well in the market place. After her publishing company gave away books to libraries and book stores when one of the publisher’s children like it, it started to do really well. This shows that generosity and perseverance in the face of failure are important characteristics of book success.

Dan Brown, the best-selling author of the Robert Langdon Series, has his own masterclass program. I haven’t signed up to it, but, in the trailer, he said that writers should not worry about being overly original. A lot of the great books out there have predecessors who wrote similar stories. J.K. Rowling dabbled in magical fantasy after J.R.R. Tolkien did in The Hobbit and The Lord of the Rings, for example. It is fine to write something that has been partially explored before, as long as you are not engaging in plagiarism.

In a BBC article, Sophie Kinsella, the successful author of the Shopaholic series, says that getting to the end of the book is one of the most important aspects of writing. You should walk around with a notebook, to jot down ideas; write the story that you would like to read and plan your books. Those are just some of her tips. A full list of her top ten tips can be found below. Here is the link:

https://www.bbc.com/news/entertainment-arts-29458847

In conclusion, it’s great to write and it’s even better to learn from the best out there. You can learn directly from the best-selling authors in Masterclass session. Learning from what is known about publishing experiences, for example, is a great way to make your book a success. One good tidbit is to not obsess over originality. You can get a more detailed list from Sophie Kinsella; at the end of the day, what you learn is what matters most.

Sometimes, all it takes is one voice to change your inner world

Everyone needs a voice that will uplift them. A voice that will shine light on the greatness within. You need someone that will hold space for you; that will shine light on the dark spots within. You need a voice that will empower you; show you how to be whole and complete. Someone that will guide you to realise your potential. Someone that will repeatedly say it’s okay. Someone that knows how to fulfill your emotional needs because they have gone through the journey you are going through. They know the way and want to lead you through your way. If you are hurting you dont have to be; If you see more for yourself listen to that voice. It may be faint but itll keep getting louder until you listen or manifest itself in other ways in your life.

Surround yourself with the people that are on the same journey. Learn from those practiced. Listen to media that teaches you and nourishes you. Do the spiritual work. If you don’t feel good about your life, are repeatedly sick, are overweight, are having relationship problems, or are feeling unfulfilled chances you are having deep rooted issues. There’s a story you’re telling yourself or patterns you’re repeating that arent serving you. This way of being may be the only thing you know. However unhappiness is a signal that there is something holding you down. Do the work to find out what exactly is holding you back from feeling amazing on the inside. Wishing you a blessed journey. Thank you for reading!

50 Ways to Feel Great Sober

A lot famous artists have sung about the pains of getting sober, including Demi Lovato’s honest and expressive take, Kelly Clarkson’s powerful and impactful version as well as Pink’s inspirations and chilling rendition on/of songs, all titled Sober. It is pretty clear that a lot of people are familiar with the works of Pink. She has a lot of big hits, including So What, Just Give Me A Reason and Raise Your Glass. Being a concert-filling, highly talented and commercially successful artist must have its perks, but she also possesses a lot in way of influence as well. The meaningful lyrics and subject matter of her songs has come to influence the lives of millions of people. This article deals with one such song. 

 

As previously mentioned, one of her other hits is a song called Sober, which provides inspiration for this article. It can be interpreted that Sober deals with how hard it is to give up drugs, or even imagine a life without drugs. In the song, Pink sings, “I’m safe, up high, nothing can’t touch me, but why do I feel this party’s over, no pain, inside, you’re like perfection, but how do I feel this good sober?” On what ends on a somber, thought-provoking note, Pink poses the question a lot of drug-takers may want to know the answer to. This article aims to answer that question by providing 50 ways to feel great sober.

 

Below is the list of 50 ways to enjoy being sober:

 

  1. Starting at number one, exercise is a great way of releasing endorphins and feeling great without taking any substances.
  2. Following up on that note, playing sports is another way of getting a life ‘high’, which is natural and healthy. Sports like football, tennis and American football all are great ways of getting blood flowing and lifting moods. 
  3. Joining a martial arts class can also enhance a day, and provide a great boost that is practically risk-free.
  4. Hiking is an activity that has grown in popularity recently. It is also a method of feeling great while staying sober.
  5. There are many events held all around the world. Attending such an event, like a book promotion, marathon or market sale, can be a way to bring up how one feels in a day. 
  6. Watching movies also provides a necessary boost to a day. This can be done be sitting back, unwinding and taking in a high-quality picture (more on unwinding later). 
  7. Music provides a great way to replenish energy and nourish the listener. Make sure to listen intently, although. 
  8. Another listening exercise that makes people feel great is listening to a nice podcast. The subject matter should be positive.
  9. Documentaries can also provide a much-needed break, but they should also be positive. 
  10. While a lot of people waste time and damage their bodies abusing substances or doing other unhealthy activities, one can engage in a healthy and rewarding activity by reading. 
  11. Rather than beating around the bush, as is the case with other activities in this list, one can relax by doing some deep-breathing. This is an important tool to learn in stress-management and addiction recovery. 
  12. Another way to relax, and exercise at the same time, is to practice yoga. Yoga helps build strength, and is a great release of stress and life worries.
  13. Meditation is a spiritual practice, but it is having a major impact on people of different faiths. This activity helps center people, and alleviates pressures of the day. 
  14. One of the most beneficial ways to enrich your soul is to pray. In different faith bases, prayer features as a way to connect with God. It is also a method to be more  centered. 
  15. A fun and wonderful physical activity is dancing. This does wonders for health, mood and physicality. They do not call it a dancer’s body for nothing.
  16. Walking is a relatively easy way to boost endorphins. It can be done on a treadmill, on route to a local cafe or just around the block.
  17. Board games provide a nice way to connect with others, but also to feel great. It does not involve any substances, and it helps stretch the mind of the player. 
  18. Speaking of cafes, enjoying some time in a cafe with friends or by one’s self is a great way to have fun healthily. Make sure to avoid caffeinated drinks, though, that does not help the cause of staying sober.
  19. Going to a restaurant is another way of spending quality time with others. Try to stick to healthy food and drink options, as many restaurants serve alcohol and unhealthy foods which are counterproductive to the goal of staying sober.
  20. A traditional night out which is still going strong in today’s world is seeing a play. That provides a lot of happiness to many people without the problems associated with drugs and alcohol. 
  21. Watching movies at home is great, but going out to catch a flick is also nice. Going to the cinema is a great way to watch movies and enjoy one’s self. It also provides a much-needed release from daily stresses and a boost to energy. 
  22. An extreme way to getting a life ‘high’ is to go skydiving. This may not be for everyone, but, fear not, there are other ways to feel great sober. 
  23. A lot of people enjoy driving, which could be a way of occupying time without taking drugs or drinking alcohol. 
  24. Those who cannot drive yet or do not have a license might try quad-driving instead. This is another fun activity which is, virtually, free of any health risks. 
  25. Another activity, which a lot of drug-takers and alcohol addicts may have given up, or forgotten about altogether, is swimming. 
  26. Not too different from swimming, one can go snorkeling or scuba-diving to enjoy the wonders of the world’s seas and oceans. 
  27. Traveling is a very enjoyable practice, which is becoming quite the past-time for many cultural enthusiasts. While a lot of people center their trips on boozing or indulging in their host country’s most popular drug, that is not necessary. Completely sober trips are not only a great time, but one might find that they accomplish and see more while remaining sober, as opposed to what they would have accomplished if they spent their time abusing substances. 
  28. Spending time with friends and family is also a way to feel great while maintaining good health. Not only does it protect the practitioner from health risks, it also has benefits, and is an integral part of life .
  29. Like exercise and martial arts, boxing, or kickboxing, is a great way to learn a new skill while engaging in a hobby. It also does not involve any drugs or alcohol.
  30. For the more artistic-type, drawing is a rewarding activity that helps the drawer feel a sense of achievement, once she or he completes an art project. Artistic talent is not necessary to draw, and one can find that they only discover a hidden talent once they give the art form a go. 
  31. Painting is similar to drawing, in the sense that it is a rewarding, fulfilling activity. 
  32. For those who are really ambitious, they can try their hands at sculpting. 
  33. While there is arts, there is also crafts. A craft project can help someone occupy their time and stay abstinent. 
  34. A peaceful activity that many enjoy is that of gardening. This is a very engaging activity, and an important skill which may impress a lot of people, including employers. 
  35. In more general terms, one can pursue the completion of a project, whether that be a construction project, organising an event or even a wedding project. Helping out in a project is a great way to accomplish something while staying sober. 
  36. On that subject, helping out a friend, family or community member is a good aid to addiction recovery while embodying good values. 
  37. Helping those around is admirable, but one cannot also help out by donating to a cause. There are many non-governmental, international non-governmental and charitable organizations that are there to advance societal, humanitarian and other goals for a lot of people. Donating to them can help you feel good, contribute to a solution and potentially save lives. 
  38. Rather than just donating money, one can also give their time to a cause. By volunteering, a lot can be achieved to help others, but also help yourself lead a normal, healthy and successful life. 
  39. If time is short, then people can help out by making certain choices. They can do so by, for example, choosing to purchase locally-produced goods or doing their shopping in local shops and stores. This is a good way of helping out in a community and being a good communitarian and citizen. 
  40. A more direct way of helping out a community is to go to the local community center. Donating time to an activity organized by the community centre, or donating directly to it, is good for the community and for the donor as well. 
  41. A highly-enjoyable activity is that of camping. Camping has ways of benefiting people since it, usually, involves a lot of physical activity. It can also be a wonderful bonding experience for all those involved. 
  42. Like hiking and camping, trekking is another activity where individuals cross large amounts of natural terrain. This is a recommended form of exercise and a decent way to feel great sober.
  43. On another more general note, trying something new or picking up a hobby is exciting and provides a fantastic learning opportunity for all those who choose to do so. A lot of things one tries, or hobbies one starts, are, for all intents and purposes, healthy and pleasurable. Hobbies include biking, roller-blading and writing. 
  44. While all parts of the world have been discovered by individuals and groups of individuals, not all parts of the world have been ‘discovered’ by everyone. Adventuring is a way to come in contact of new frontiers in life, and could be a very meaningful experience, especially when done with a friend or other close person. 
  45. An extreme way to get a high is to bungee-jump. This, again, may not be for everyone, but it will undoubtedly provide a rush. 
  46. An activity which has grown almost exponentially with the wide-reach of smartphones and the effects of social media, photography is a great way of engaging in an artistic activity while staying clear of drugs and alcohol. 
  47. It is known that sharing is caring, but sharing is also beneficial to the sharer and not just its recipients. It goes to show that doing good helps others and also the do-gooder. 
  48. A social activity could be expanding your network by meeting people and making friends. Putting one’s self out there may lead to some rejection, but it is generally an uplifting activity. 
  49. Bonding with old and new friends, as well as other loved ones, is also a nice way to do well while growing and developing. One of the reasons people start experimenting with drugs and alcohol is because they cannot bond with those around them. This activity, therefore, kills two birds with one stone considering it helps someone relish in positive feelings while also preventing future drug and/or alcohol use. 
  50. The final way to feel great sober, on this list, is to engage in another exhilarating activity; namely, paragliding. Paragliding is an activity a lot of people seem to like, and it does not have anywhere near the number of costs that drugs and alcohol have. 

 

As should have been made obvious, there are many ways to feel wonderful while not taking drugs or drinking alcohol. Substances are not necessary to feel good, as is proven by the above list of 50 ways to feel great sober. This is by no means a completely exhaustive list, but it goes to show that there are things to enjoy while looking after one’s health. By seeing to being healthy, individuals are taking care of themselves in more ways than one. Life is too precious to throw it away on substances, and there is no need to when it is possible to feel great perfectly sober.

I made the Goodreads Giveaway Most Requested List!

I’m on the last pages of the list, but still on it nonetheless. I’m so happy. I really hope that this translates into a lot of people reading my book and the story I have spreading as far as it can. You can check out my book Family Day, on the list on page 26, sometimes 25. Here is the link:

https://www.goodreads.com/giveaway?all_countries=true&page=26&sort=most_requested

My Third Article on The Citizen To Be Published

The Editor of The Citizen, an English newspaper in Tanzania, has agreed to publish my third article in the newspaper! I’m so thrilled. If you’re in Tanzania, please look out for my article. I’ll let you know the day it’s published. For all my other readers, I’ll share the article soon.